Saying
"It's okay to dream big,
But it's not okay if you don't bring it to reality".
We live in a world filled with misery, pain and sorrow. Where the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. The weak get weaker and the strong get stronger.
Now let me get to the point, you have to stop making excuses on why life is hard, why you can't follow or chase your dreams, thinking of where to start from but you don't know where too start from, Saying there is no hope for you but the truth is you just have to start, it is when you start you would know if there is hope or not. We all battle with a very Deep word that affects our daily life. "PROCRASTINATION".
Firstly, what is Procrastination? Procrastination is the act of delaying and postponing something. A simple word for it is Laziness.
This has affected our daily life till date and i know it is inevitable but the truth is if you don't learn how to control it, it could affect you in a bad way.
But here is a little tip on how to control it. Set a time table, take full responsibility for your self, let time be like a life line to you.
When I was a young girl I always loved singing since age 8, when I watched singers on the TV, I have always had this dream, this motivation of becoming a singer one day. I started writing songs to at age 12 and I later gave up but guess what, now I'm 20 and I just started writing my songs again. It hasn't been easy though and I'm always happy doing what i love, I was always making up excuses that I couldn't do it, that if I write songs it won't be good enough and no one would love my songs but I decided that I just have to start even if I feel it doesn't make sense and ever since I took that decision I have been happy writing and I hope to fullfil my dream one day. I know sometimes you wonder why even after everything you have done no good results and then you think about giving up. But there is the one thought that comes to your mind saying "Just keep going" let that be your motivation everyday. There is a saying "Delay isn't Denial" meaning if it's taking long that doesn't mean nothing won't come out of it.
I have lot of regrets listening to people and not standing firm on what I want and believing in myself. But it doesn't mean because of that I would have to give up on my dreams you have to trust and believe in yourself that you can do it.
I know discouragement, negative thoughts are inevitable but it's left for you to accept those words or the positive thoughts within you.
Here are some tips to help you never give up:
1. Prayer: This is the most important of all put God first in everything you do, when you are going out and coming in, even when you feel down it helps.
2. Constant Reminder: Reminding yourself everyday that there is hope and you can do it no matter what, Be your own therapy.
3. Believe in yourself: Believe that you can do anything even if people say you won't get anywhere, make your own motivational words stronger than theirs and be proud of what you do and how far you have come even if you didn't gain much. Do it because you love what you do not for the money or the thing that comes with it.
4. Set a time: This is the important, set a time for the things you love doing like your drawing, writing, singing, watching videos to learn more about things and so on . Have a time for your goals.
5. Withdraw from Negative vibes: If you have people that makes you feel less and not good enough cut tiles with them, if it's a sibling try to talk to hem about the things they do that you don't like, if it's a co-worker avoid them or talk to them about what you don't like in order to avoid negative vibes.
When ever you feel down and sad always pray to God, pray to God and put all your hard work in prayer "Prayer without work is dead" don't relax hoping prayer would work, work hard and pray and you will see changes. I know life can be tough but keep fighting and never give up
Be positive today.
Soon I'd beat procrastination, thank you soo much for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI'm really glad, thanks for commenting.
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