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UNDERSTANDING COINCIDENCE/MISUNDERSTANDING...

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UNDERSTANDING COINCIDENCE/MISUNDERSTANDING...

// I just wanna  make this clear to everyone (MY OWN OPINION) ..
You know no one is perfect,we are all humans, we can make the same mistakes again and again, sometimes someone can be the reason for that same  mistake you made ...
However, there are two words i want  everyone on mirakee and even in the world to understand....
Which is COINCIDENCE AND MISUNDERSTANDING
COINCIDENCE LEADS TO MISUNDERSTANDING 
MISUNDERSTANDING LEADS TO COINCIDENCE 
they both are like chemical with different reactions and a very deep chemistry between them, just like them having flaws//....

 //  Okay, what is COINCIDENCE? It is a remarkable concurrences of circumstances without apparently casual Connection. Something that happens at the same time.  

 WHAT IS MISUNDERSTANDING? A failure to understand something correctly, also a disagreement or quarrel.
           For example,  there was a time my mom got a call from someone and she started complaining that, my mom was avoiding her calls because she said my mom knew that what she sold to her  wasn't working which wasn't true, my mom said the network connection sometimes  can glitch and if you call  it might say line busy or not available, she kept on explaining her self and the woman kept on complaining, my mom now said ma this is like a coincidence and misunderstanding ..let me stop there ..  When I heard that I decided to understand more about what it meant.... 
       
           When I say COINCIDENCE LEADS TO MISUNDERSTANDING and MISUNDERSTANDING LEADS TO COINCIDENCE IT SIMPLY MEANS IN A TIME OF occurrences, it can lead to a problem that is, when misunderstanding comes...  For example, when a man who is married is this kind of a busy person and he goes out to see a client or even the client comes to his house and the Client is a woman, maybe she like the married man. then the next thing she is already forcing herself on him and the wife comes in immediately she is gonna read alot through what she saw and misunderstanding can come in...  Which can lead to losing trust , keeping grudge , filing a divorce. but if the person is very understanding there isn't a problem, and so for the second time again the wife walks in another day and the same thing happens that is it she will think dirty of you and she might not trust you  again and now imagine for the third time she would just maybe leave or even divorce..... 
But like I said earlier,  that someone can be the reason for the mistake..  you know we human we can read things the wrong way which do lead to so many things.......
         Also, some people take things serious , especially in relationship like they don't accept a mistake twice ,so you always have to be careful, I have  been through this but it was a coincidence and a misunderstanding and it didn't end well//..
      I have really waited for this day to write and explain what this means , and I hope it made sense to you and it could change your mind set..

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