How to ignore a guy that ignores you.

                         How to ignore a guy that ignores you (goes both ways)

Guys some times ignore intentionally for some reason (it could either be a good or bad motive), just to get attention from a girl to see if she likes him. Sometimes he knows that once he ignores you ,you'll come running to him.
In some cases IGNORE him back.
Don't give  in too easily, in that way you are doing what he wants, giving him the room to control you and by doing that he will always have his way.
So anytime you see things like this you call it off or it is game over.
So here are some tips;

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1. . Keep yourself busy

Keeping yourself busy Is the main point in this. When you keep busy, you see

yourself not worrying about the guy that ignored you. Instead he will wonder why you are not worried.

For example:《ADVICE》

° Play games with your female friends 

° Reading books

° Helping with chores

° Developing your skills

° Entertain yourself 《watch movies, hobbies》

° Talk to your friend

° Do what you love

° Go out with friends, take pictures, have fun, post pictures .

When he sees you having fun and not really bothered, he won't hesitate to come back.

                                     

2. Talk to someone 《Bestfriend, close friend, family》
         
               Sometimes, we feel lonely and we need someone we can look up to, share what bothers us, when things like "someone we care and love ignores us".
It hurts and makes us feel lonely because we will have a lot of thoughts going on like for example; asking your self questions
1. what did I do wrong?
2. What happened?
3. Over thinking to see if you where the one at fault.
 Sometimes ,we need people for advice, to be there for us, to console us, because depression can take place.

3. Finding another guy
       
          In some cases, some girls won't want to do this because she feels the same thing will happen and sometimes it could be she still wants to give the guy another chance.
         However, my opinion to this is, don't put your egg in one basket meaning,
Don't have a guy when you are not sure you will date him, you can have like three guys and from there you can choose one and know the one that is right for you. The reason is this if you have just a guy and he leaves you the truth is that you will be left alone and be sad.

NB: If you are dating and he starts to ignore you, don't go around misbehaving or cheating ,you can always have a talk with him, keep yourself busy, have fun and make him remember what he is missing out.

4. Don't overreact .
 
        This is  the mistake some girls do and it brings us down, instead just
Move on, since you both never dated. Yes he came with the intention of loving you and he later ignored you, there could be a lot of reason behind that, it is simple ignore him back and move on.

Here are some advice:

° Work through your feelings another way
° Go out and have fun
° Focus on your self
° Leave your phone
° Delete his number
° Mute him on social media
° Turn off notification
° Always remind yourself that you deserve better.

                   

                  Comment below if you have your own opinion.