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(20) hard truth you should know about in a relationship.

(20) hard truth you should know about in a relationship.


Loving someone takes a lot of work and commitment, your partner can tell you i love you and still hurt you. If you want a relationship to work ,the both of you must be ready to work hard to bring out a successful one and you must love your self to be able to understand when your partner mean when saying "I love you".
And no relationship is perfect,here are some hard truth about relationship.

1. You won't always feel attracted to your partner.

2. You will feel lonely at times.

3. You will get bored at times.

4. You will get pissed off at each other and say things that you don't mean.

5. You will quarrel.
A true relationship ,you will quarrel with each other to understand each other a relationship where u hv never quarreled in my own opinion it is not a true one .

6. The deeper the love ,the deeper the risk and fear.

7. You will break each other trust.

8. You will have to swallow you ego and apologize first.

9. You will have to make each other jealous when you need each other attention.

This is true,and some people will think it is childish but it is actually love( if you want to know more about this comment bellow)

Am going to refer to myself and it is kind of hilarious in a way.

So this happened to me and my and my Ex where by the vibe was not there anymore. then I decided to post thing to make him jealous and he also did the same I was also jealous.

Although he hit me up with a hi and he started asking who he was and I was happy though because I got his attention and also got mine.

10. You won't always miss your partner when you  away from him/her.

11. Sometimes you will be unhappy .

12. You will be confused and be like "am tired of this  relationship or am not sure about this.

13. You won't always love your partner.

14. You will get irritated.

15. You will at times take about your past relationships and show that you are still hurt.

16. You won't always agree with your partner decisions.

17. There is no equal love.
(It is either one love the other more)

18. You will need each  other's space.

Sometimes when you feel too clingy on ,sometimes it could be a sign that he or she wants to break up but that space thing is  mostly for guys.

Some guys wants space when they feel she is needy and clingy. But having the space does not mean they don't like you they do but sometimes they don't.

19. relationship are not about,he is the right person or the right one one for you.

20. Even some relationship expert struggles with conflict in their relationship or marriage.





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