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What men want in a relationship

What men want in a relationship.


 You know not all men are the same (not all want the same thing), but with all this all men will surely want this. here is what I have for you and this will help.
The key point in this is the : C-word.

1 .Respect.
     We all know men don't joke with this ,no man will want to be taken for granted and be treated anyhow. because when his partner condemns him of his career, he background or past this can really affect the relationship and can also make him distance himself from you even though he is still in love with you.

2 .physical touch.

       Men  really love it when their partner touches them "non-sexually", like their hair, neck holding hands and this messages passed across saying, I love you, I want you to be happy always and always know that i am going to be by your side no matter what .

3 .The C-Word

     Just like what i said in number 2 telling them, reassuring them how much they mean to you. Without communication a relationship can't really survive and this is the main key in this aspect to keep a man happy ,you have to be able to communicate even when you want to give him the silent treatment and make him wonder what went wrong .well it is really frustrating but you are getting your relationship to be "on the rock". if you need space go ahead and tell him ,if he really loves you he would understand.

Note :don't over take too much space .
If you have any issue you can always talk to him ,to solve before it is too late, no one wants to be stressed.

4 .Security, Space and Mandate.
 
   Men feel secured when it comes to opening up. You know security goes deeper than saying you won't leave him, he feels secured when you praise and approve him ,when you touch him " non-sexually ", when you give him space knowing he still loves you even when he is with his guys. Men sometimes go back the way they were before they met you like going out with his  male friends, having old memories and all.
  
   Men mostly need respect because they do have Ego and want to be treated like a king but also know that even when treating him like and doesn't reciprocate and you communicate about it and complain and he still doesn't listen or change please leave him. I know it is easier said than done but you deserve better like the Queen that you are. 

NOTE: If you are married i would advise to play the Reverse Psychology card want to know more on this check this.

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