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Things you should never do for a man

Things you should never do for a man                                                                
1 .Put yourself first
 
    If,  you are in a situation where you
  have to choose between you and him
  put your self first. never allow the        word"LOVE", take away your               happiness, focus and aspiration And   lay down your dreams for him ,fairly be with someone that is ready to  support you and not stress you and add more problems to you.

2 .Never allow your self to be used all in the name of love

  If he wants something from you,and you don't want it ,you have to be straight and tell him. you know  sometimes guys do it to test we girls  to see what we would say and our reaction. so, no matter what never give into demand if you don't want to.

3.Never sacrifice your happiness because of the man you love

   Everybody deserves to be happy ,it is astonishing  seeing  some ladies halting their happiness for the one they love,trying to please their man all in the name of love and they go as far as hurting themselves to try and keep them .and sometimes this things are caused by lust and obsession and yes sometimes  it could be love but it does not mean it is right.

4 .Allowing him take over you
   
     Don't allow your man control you or take over you because of you love him and want to be with him,the question is does he want the same thing or he just want to use you.
NOTE:you are the you that controls  the you in you.
As a lady, a lady is meant to be independent in order to avoid all this ,and this can make you know what you want even though you truly love him.

5 .Be yourself (APPEARANCE)

    One thing I have understood about this is that when you have never had someone ,you dont really care about what people say because you know what you are doing Is right,you know some ladies change so much when they have someone ,the word "FORMING" comes in ,and later on if your guy is the kind of guy that complains so much about your appearance ,like your weight,hair or anything consigning you.I advice you leave him because he does not love you for who you are ,he is either comparing you to another girl or he wants to make you look perfect or make you feel you are not okay the way you are before and no one is perfect. so no matter what be yourself, yes look good not because of him but for yourself  and don't over do it .
     

Comments

  1. If u don't do all dat for ur man, who will marry u? Love is all abt sacrifice

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    1. I understand your point but at the same time, relationship is a 100-100 thing,u give 100, I give 100,yes it is about sacrifice but the sacrifice should go both ways..

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  2. Fact,am proud of you boo-boo,am right behind u every step of the way😘👍

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  3. You gat the best idea ma'am, gat your back on this , wish our ladies can see this.

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  4. Buh all of those things are still important for you to do for your man... love the idea though.... keep it up.... Jah blessing always behind u

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  5. This is just for me thanks dear

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